Guys do not be a wishy-washy 21st-century boy. It does not matter whom you want to date, because, first women are looking for Don Draper ("Mad Men") type of men, and so are men; so when it comes to dating, that means being decisive about plans. Don't worry about this, your date won't see your taking charge as alpha-male tactics, but as a sign of your interest.
The same holds true on the actual date. If you are halfway through an old-fashioned by the time she or he walks in the door, flag down the bartender as she or he comes in. And that means being ready to order for both of you. Find out what is your date's favorite drink and be ready to order, and ask the bartender or server to create perhaps a variation of that, because this will show you wish to please your date on details. So be a man dude!
At dinner, suggest a couple of appetizers to share. Then order it before your date orders her or his own main course. Think of it as showing off your hunter-gatherer abilities. Yes, show that you are a hunter and your date is your catch. This will make her or him feel even more attracted to you. ALWAYS have a game plan for after dinner; and if your abilities are good, you know what will happen, so go forward! Assume the meal will be a success, so have a nearby cozy bar where you may continue the evening, but do not spend too much time over there, because the last thing you want is to exhaust your date. Be always aware of the right time for the right move, and the end you will have what you wished for!
The same holds true on the actual date. If you are halfway through an old-fashioned by the time she or he walks in the door, flag down the bartender as she or he comes in. And that means being ready to order for both of you. Find out what is your date's favorite drink and be ready to order, and ask the bartender or server to create perhaps a variation of that, because this will show you wish to please your date on details. So be a man dude!
At dinner, suggest a couple of appetizers to share. Then order it before your date orders her or his own main course. Think of it as showing off your hunter-gatherer abilities. Yes, show that you are a hunter and your date is your catch. This will make her or him feel even more attracted to you. ALWAYS have a game plan for after dinner; and if your abilities are good, you know what will happen, so go forward! Assume the meal will be a success, so have a nearby cozy bar where you may continue the evening, but do not spend too much time over there, because the last thing you want is to exhaust your date. Be always aware of the right time for the right move, and the end you will have what you wished for!
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